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Finding That Special Person.
I can remember years ago when I was on the dating scene socializing with other singles and talking about meeting Mr or Ms RIGHT…
The conversation would go something like this…
I want a man who is…
– Educated…
– Has his own business…
– Financially secure…
– Able to look after all my needs…
– Good looking…
– 6 ft tall
– Intelligent…
– Funny…
– Easy to have a conversation with…
– Knows how to treat a woman…
– Wants children…
Or…
I want a woman who is…
– Gorgeous…
– Hour glass figure…
– Able to have and want children…
– Good in conversation…
– Humorous…
– Tall…
– Intelligent…
– Low maintenance…
– Able to look after her man…
The list can almost go on forever identifying the right person for you.
Naturally, it’s definitely very important to know the type of person you wish to spend the rest of your life with. If you don’t have at least a mental list how will you know when they show up?
What about finding that special person as a Business Partner…
We also would have a check list of what we want in a perfect Business Partner.
To attract that special person into your life whether it is in a personal or business context you need to ask yourself another question.
What am I bringing to the table in this relationship? What qualities, skills, knowledge etc… am I going to contribute to this relationship?
If I am looking for that special person and I’m expecting them to have a certain standard, do you think they are thinking and looking for the same thing?
For you to attract that special person into your life, you would need to demonstrate similar qualities and standards to be a win/win relationship.
Like attracts like and opposites repel…Yes…there are always exceptions…
Understand this…
When you become what you are looking for the likely hood of it showing up is much greater. All those qualities you listed out are who YOU NEED TO BE to attract the other special person.
You have total control of becoming whoever you want to become and this will then open the doors wider to finding that special person you are looking for.
Work very hard on becoming what you want…
– If I want to have a healthy, good looking and active outdoors partner do you think I will attract them sitting at home, watching TV, drinking beer and eating pizza? Most probably not…
– If I want a business partner who is honest, treats people fairly, has good morals and character do you think I will attract them if I’m not honest with my suppliers and customers, treat people harshly and with contempt, have lose morals about what’s right and wrong? Most probably not…
Call it law of attraction, universal law, cause and effect, like attracts like, good honest living, it’s all the same.
Become that which you are looking for and it will show up automatically without you having to go too far to find it.
That SPECIAL PERSON will show up in your life when it first shows up in YOU.
Finding That Special Person
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