When You Are Hurting You Hurt – Communication

When You Are Hurting You Hurt – Communication. One powerful concept that really stuck with me when I heard it was a saying from Tony Robbins…

Tony said:

There are only 2 types of communication,

– One of love…
– A cry for help….

The first one, one of love, is expressed in a way of a win/win communication, where we treat the person in front of us with courtesy, respect, dignity, love, kindness and deepen the relationship…

The second, a cry for help, is expressed in a way where the person is rude, sarcastic, shouting, criticizing, putting you down, causing a rift in the relationship…

This second form of communication has nothing to do with you if your on the receiving end of this type of communication…

It’s a sign of a cry for help, they are in pain, overwhelmed, upset and finding it hard to cope with what’s going on in front of them….

The thing is…..

When we are on the receiving end of a cry for help, we take it personally and think its about us and react to it…

It’s not about us, is about them….

Our job is to respond in a positive way, one of love, not react in a defensive way….

Understand this point, apply it and your communication and deep loving relationships will skyrocket….

We are so conditioned to take things personally and react when what we could do is take 5 deep breaths as it’s happening and come back with a communication of love…

– Are you OK…
– can I help…
– what can I do for you…

What Type of communication are you using most of the time?…

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