The Quality Of Your Life Is The Quality Of Your Communication.

The quality of your life is the quality of your communication. These are the words from Tony Robbins who has devoted the last 40 Years of his life applying and teaching how to effectively communicate to self and others…

Do you think he has made a few powerful distinctions over that period of time that could make a huge, huge impact in the quality of our life?…

Yes….You better believe it…

The more I learn and teach effective Communication through applying the tools and techniques of NLP, I absorb a much deeper understanding and appreciation of how the quality of your life is the quality of your communication…

When I was living in Sydney Australia many years ago my Communication wasn’t as good as it is now…

It’s not perfect now but everyday it gets better and better and the quality of my life gets better and better as well…

My communication use to be disastrous…

Firstly…

The way I would treat myself and talk to myself was despicable…

Paul….

⁃ You failed…
⁃ Your hopeless at learning…
⁃ Can’t you get anything right…
⁃ You did it again…
⁃ You can’t do public speaking…
⁃ You just don’t have it…

I was angry, frustrated, upset, overwhelmed…

Nothing seemed to be working…

I was in a very un-resourceful state which led me to how I was communicating to other people…

I would punch people in the face(metaphorically speaking) with my words and actions…

Things like…

Saying, oh your late again, you’ll never be good at that, give it up your hopeless….

Saying words like, no, wrong , impossible, negative, failure…

Even if I was half joking, subconsciously there is always an element of truth and the person in front of me would be affected by my every word…

Listen up…

What’s the message here…

Everything we do while communicating is working for us or against us, there is no middle ground…

Outside of awareness outside of control…

If your happy with the quality of your life, keep doing what your doing in your communication…

If your looking to improve the quality of your life, improve the quality of your communication…

It’s that simple…

I don’t say it’s easy, I said simple, yet it does get easier with time…

The quality of your life is the quality of your communication…

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